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And you look at women’s attractiveness, it goes really up at low BMI and really drops below that. They look at hair color and they look at height and they look at income, and that’s basically it... And you can ask, is it because that’s all people care about or is that because that’s what the system is giving them to search for. Sure, we are superficial, we do care about attractiveness and height and income and these are features for us, but I think they’re exaggerated by the way the system is created.Imagine you were looking for something else, imagine you were looking for digital cameras, and imagine that I only allow you to search on megapixels and f-stop for the lens, right?And at the same time, I think it’s incredibly important, right?The dating market is perhaps the only market that we moved from a centralized market to a decentralized market.I mean, think about it: how many millions of people are participating in this activity and marriage rates has not increased, divorce has not decreased.I mean, not really much has happened because of that.
Dan Ariely: I became interested in online dating because one of the people who were sitting in an office next to me was incredibly miserable, and he was an assistant professor; he just moved to the university where I was at; he was spending long hours; he was not finding anybody to date; he was, couldn’t date students at the university, he was a professor; he didn’t have time to go outside.
And because of that, I think actually people become much more superficial than we think they are. It turns out, women really care about men's height. At the same time, it turns out that men care a lot about women’s BMI’s.
I’m 5’9”, if I wanted to be as attractive as somebody who’s 5’10”, right, another inch? In fact, they want women to be slightly anorexic, at like 18-1/2.
These things would become incredibly important, right?
And if I drop some things from the search, they would become as if they’re not important or much less important.
I mean, imagine that you basically had to drive six hours, three hours each way to have coffee with somebody, and, you know, coffee usually ends up with just coffee. So I think it's a really bad, it's a really bad system.