If you want to dig to the core of the person, without the inhibitions, insecurities and nervousness that usually comes with real life contact, make sure you use online discussion wisely.Ask all the hard and prickly personal questions online.They all turned out to screw me over, one by one in a number of different ways in varying degrees.Then when I started having major success, they all tried to come back into my life, but by then I had decided that I did'nt really want a lot of people hanging around in my life.
it's sad, but I have the emotional scars to deal with. I'm a loner..honestly and HAPPILY admit that I have two good friends in this world and that is all and they're both married so I don't see them often. We tend to seek solace with solitude, and that's just the way we are. In some ways, I'd like to think we do make the most faithful if not the most romantic types. I think sometimes people seek constant contact with other people to get away from themselves; if you don't need that, maybe it just means you're secure and content with your life and there's nothing wrong with that!
I also learned that most people do not make good close friends, so its better to keep most at arms length. We can't seem to live without em, and it's tough for us to live with each other. If you like who you are, you shouldn't have to change yourself to meet the expectations of others. Then again, why should you be forced to be something, or someone you're not? You obviously do not lack communication skills, so I'd advise you to go out and meet other people. Sitting in a house, typing on a computer, isn't going to help your problems.
I think the best thing a loner can do is first seek experiences and allow those to enrich your life, then whatever happens from there happens. I've experienced enough disappointment, so I prefer to be friendly with people but in no way establish a close relationship. With the air of confidence you have, meeting new people should be a breeze. If you're a loner and feel lonely, that's not good and you should take steps to change it.
You will find that the benefits of online introvert seeking are that: Also, introverts are reserved by nature, meaning that online contact eases the process of getting to know them.
However, remember that you will eventually want to meet them. Skype and MSN messenger are two popular examples that support video calling as well.